[ he looks up at the cliff. and then back down at luca with a raised eyebrow. ]
Explain the romance behind walking along a beach.
[ but he is moving out of the water, and back onto the sand. he's looking at the different shells sticking out of the sand, and the lap of the waves against the shore. ]
But jumping into the water... I can see the thrill of that.
[ he just sort of blinks at the hand. it's not like he doesn't know what holding hands on a walk is, literally, but well. he's never done it before. but after a moment, he'll take luca's hand. ]
[Time for Yuri to experience it! Because he'll lace his fingers with Yuri's and let their arms hang between them as they start to walk down the beach. They're close enough to the water that the waves sometimes cover their feet too, but it doesn't impede walking.]
You know, truth be told, I've never done this either.
[ what is this thing you call handholding? it's. something? it's something. he isn't really sure what he's meant to do with it, now his hand is... essentially luca's captive. ]
Given what you've told me, that doesn't surprise me. Would you have felt comfortable doing this back home?
[It certainly is something! And Luca is hoping that Yuri can't feel how quick his pulse is through their connected hands. He's already trying not to die of a heart attack here.]
Not really. Time spent between two men is limited to bars and bedrooms. It's assumed that if you want the company of a man, then it's about sex. After all, if you're looking for friendship or companionship, then you don't need a romantic partner for that. And if you want a romantic partner but no sex, you can just find a woman you get along with.
I never even thought to question it.
[Not until he came here and learned that being with a man isn't only about sex.]
[ he can’t die two days ahead of schedule, sorry to say. luca will survive.
People don’t question what’s considered to be normal. If they do question it, they’ll do it in private. And if they don’t and try to bring about change? Then they’ll be considered radical.
Not that it’s always a bad thing, changing the things that don’t work.
It sounds like you’ve already had a long think about all of this.
I would say your conversational skills exceed all expectations personally. You're the first person I've talked to in a long, long time who's made me think so much about such complicated topics. That has to count for something.
I wouldn't call it 'emulating', necessarily. Maybe...taking new ideas into consideration? It doesn't change my opinion on most things, but it does let me make more informed decisions. I was an overthinker long before I met you, you know.
[Still, he's walking on the beach with Yuri, holding hands and even swinging them just a little bit. Yuri's definitely made an impression on him.]
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Date: 2021-03-12 11:52 pm (UTC)[Time to fix hair! But this time he's reaching over to tuck some of Yuri's bangs back and out of his face.]
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Date: 2021-03-13 12:49 am (UTC)You mentioned something about lying on the sand. Are those the main things to do here -- swim, or just lie around?
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Date: 2021-03-13 01:01 am (UTC)[He points to a nearby cliff that juts out to the deeper parts of the water. Said cliff is only like 20 feet tall so it's not dangerously high.]
There's also building sandcastles and, if you don't mind being stereotypically romantic, long walks on the beach.
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Date: 2021-03-13 01:09 am (UTC)Explain the romance behind walking along a beach.
[ but he is moving out of the water, and back onto the sand. he's looking at the different shells sticking out of the sand, and the lap of the waves against the shore. ]
But jumping into the water... I can see the thrill of that.
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Date: 2021-03-13 01:21 am (UTC)[Part of Luca is hoping that the answer to that question is 'no', but he shoves that part of himself deep down inside his chest.]
A slow, meandering walk while holding hands can be quite nice, you know.
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Date: 2021-03-13 03:56 pm (UTC)[ kinda busy trying not to die and all that. ]
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Date: 2021-03-14 03:27 am (UTC)[He offers out his hand. Walk with him?]
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Date: 2021-03-14 11:28 am (UTC)Sure.
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Date: 2021-03-15 12:12 am (UTC)You know, truth be told, I've never done this either.
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Date: 2021-03-15 12:52 am (UTC)Given what you've told me, that doesn't surprise me. Would you have felt comfortable doing this back home?
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Date: 2021-03-15 01:42 am (UTC)Not really. Time spent between two men is limited to bars and bedrooms. It's assumed that if you want the company of a man, then it's about sex. After all, if you're looking for friendship or companionship, then you don't need a romantic partner for that. And if you want a romantic partner but no sex, you can just find a woman you get along with.
I never even thought to question it.
[Not until he came here and learned that being with a man isn't only about sex.]
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Date: 2021-03-15 02:29 am (UTC)People don’t question what’s considered to be normal. If they do question it, they’ll do it in private. And if they don’t and try to bring about change? Then they’ll be considered radical.
Not that it’s always a bad thing, changing the things that don’t work.
It sounds like you’ve already had a long think about all of this.
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Date: 2021-03-17 01:52 am (UTC)[He thinks too much, probably.]
I suppose I have been questioning it in private too.
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:07 am (UTC)[ he’ll lean over and tap luca’s forehead with his finger tips ]
It’s good to question, but don’t tie yourself in knots in the process.
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:14 am (UTC)You say that, but it's hard to stop thinking. Usually that only happens when I sleep or when I'm 'indulging' with someone.
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:19 am (UTC)[ being unconscious or focused on something else ... ]
It is what it is. But it can be better.
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:21 am (UTC)[But he's also the one who gets Luca to start thinking sometimes, so.]
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:29 am (UTC)I’m flattered. I think?
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:32 am (UTC)Of course he fucking meant sex. This is Luca.]
Conversations about more mundane topics help too.
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Date: 2021-03-17 02:38 am (UTC)I’m glad that my conversational skills are living up to par with my bedroom skills.
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Date: 2021-03-17 09:06 am (UTC)[ he doesn't sound offended, he just sounds amused. ]
If it's making your head constantly spin, maybe I should've dialled back on the complicated topics a bit.
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Date: 2021-03-17 01:09 pm (UTC)[Luca no, don't show your feelings!]
Would simpler topics even be satisfying?
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Date: 2021-03-17 01:23 pm (UTC)Simpler topics are sometimes the best way to get information, you know. It's not a bad thing.
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Date: 2021-03-17 01:31 pm (UTC)[Still, he's walking on the beach with Yuri, holding hands and even swinging them just a little bit. Yuri's definitely made an impression on him.]
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